Your divorce avoidance strategy needs to be based on the G.A.L System. Gratitude, Attitude, and Latitude are three essential keys. What follows is a system I have used for 26 years since my darling wife and I were divorced and remarried to one another.

You may be surprised to hear that our 26 years have not been spent in a series of strife free mountain top experiences. However what has ensured further divorce avoidance is our commitment to the G.A.L System.

Gratitude daily takes center stage in our relationship as I regularly tell my wife throughout each day that I am filled with gratitude to be her life partner.

And I am filled with gratitude to God for allowing us a second chance in giving us the opportunity to get remarried once we had divorced.

Attitude features strongly in our daily walk as we both have strong personalities. We now see ourselves as complimenting one another as we often agree to disagree. The key here has been a decision on both our parts to "be wrong when we thought we were right".

What's more important to both of us than being right is staying in agreement as we know that for us to both get the best out of married life we need to stay unified.

Latitude takes the form of us giving one another plenty of personal space to have quiet times throughout the day for individual interests. We respect one another's alone times. That enables us to enjoy even more the times when we get back together over a cup of coffee to share quiet time experiences.

You too can enjoy the benefits of a lifetime of divorce avoidance by practising the G.A.L. System.

You will be blessed with a lasting loving relationship.

Copyright 2006 Kenneth Little